Finding Purpose After Church Boredom

If you’ve ever felt bored in church, you’ve likely spent some time wondering what’s next. In the first part of our video series, we explored why church can feel monotonous—repetitive services, a lack of relevance, and a focus on programs over personal growth. We validated those feelings as a signal to seek a deeper connection with God, not a sign of failing faith. Now, in this second installment, we’re diving into how to find purpose after understanding boredom. Let’s move from disengagement to a faith that feels alive and meaningful, drawing inspiration from my book, I Quit Church.

Redefining Purpose Beyond Church Routines

Church boredom often leaves us feeling spiritually empty, as I describe in Chapter 5 of my book. We recall the predictable cycle of “three songs, three announcements, and a three-point sermon” that left me unfulfilled, a sentiment many of us can relate to. But purpose isn’t found in sticking to those routines—it’s in living out your faith daily. Chapter 9 of I Quit Church redefines worship as a lifestyle, not a Sunday event, and points us to Romans 12:1 (ASV): “Present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service.” This means every moment, whether at work, with family, or running errands, can be an act of worship that brings purpose. It’s about aligning your life with God’s will, not a church schedule, and finding meaning in the everyday.

Serving Others as a Path to Purpose

One powerful way to rediscover purpose is through serving others. In Chapter 3 of I Quit Church, “Serving others can be a powerful avenue for finding purpose and healing,” especially when you’ve felt disconnected from church. Imagine the impact of a simple act, like helping a struggling neighbor with groceries. That small gesture can reflect Christ’s love in a tangible way, bringing a sense of fulfillment that church programs might not. Jesus Himself calls us to this in Mark 12:31 (NIV): “Love your neighbor as yourself.” Purpose isn’t just in grand gestures; it’s in the quiet, consistent ways we show love to those around us. Start small—check on a friend, volunteer locally, or offer a skill to someone in need. These acts can reignite your sense of purpose and connect you to God’s mission.

Everyday Evangelism: Sharing Faith Naturally

Purpose also comes from sharing Christ’s love in your daily life, a concept I explore in Chapter 11. It reminds us that “the mission field is right where you are; at work, in your neighborhood, and within your family.” Evangelism doesn’t have to mean preaching on a street corner; it can be as simple as showing kindness at work or listening to a coworker’s struggles, creating space to share your hope in Christ. 1 Peter 3:15 (NIV) encourages us, “Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.” This points to the story of Philip and the Ethiopian eunuch (Acts 8:36-38, NIV), where evangelism happened spontaneously on a desert road, showing that sharing faith can happen anywhere. Look for natural opportunities to reflect Jesus in your actions and conversations… that’s where purpose comes alive.

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Freedom to Live Purposefully

Perhaps the most liberating part of this journey is the freedom to live your faith on your terms. Chapter 13 of I Quit Church speaks to this: “This newfound freedom allows you to worship in meaningful ways, serve others with joy, and grow in your faith.” You don’t have to feel guilty about stepping away from church routines. Instead, embrace the freedom to live out your faith authentically. Galatians 5:1 (NIV) reminds us, “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.” This freedom means you can pray in nature, serve your community, or share hope with a friend… whatever feels true to your relationship with God. Purpose flows from this freedom, allowing you to live a vibrant and personal faith.

Steps to Find Your Purpose

Here are a few practical steps to help you rediscover purpose, as shared in our video:

• Reflect: Take a moment to journal: “What’s one area of my life where I can live out my faith more purposefully—work, family, or community? How can I reflect Christ there?” This helps you identify where you can make a difference.

• Share in Community: Discuss with others one way you’ve felt purposeful in your faith outside of church, or one way you’d like to. Sharing your journey fosters connection and encouragement.

• Meditate on Scripture: Spend time with Colossians 3:23 (NIV): “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” Think of one task you can do “for the Lord” this week to find purpose.

A New Chapter of Purpose

Church boredom doesn’t have to be the end of your faith. It can be the beginning of a more purposeful journey. By redefining worship as a lifestyle, serving others, sharing Christ naturally, and embracing freedom, you can live a faith that feels alive, anywhere and anytime. Trust that God is guiding you toward a life of meaning and impact. In our next episode, we’ll explore how to build an authentic, gospel-centered community to support this purposeful faith. You don’t have to walk this journey alone… let’s keep going together.